Confessions of a Self-Proclaimed Bitch

When I first started writing this book – Shedding the Corporate Bitch, it was and still is a confession of my days in corporate when I decided that being a bitch was the only way that I could climb the corporate ladder and achieve the success that I wanted.

As I began to write it, and then market it around the country, I have had hundreds of people come up to me and tell me about the ‘bitch’ that they were dealing with. At first I expected to hear about another woman, and more often than expected, men that treated people like crap and forced their way up the ladder.

Instead what people were telling me and I in turn started learning about myself, is that my ‘bitch’ was not just the ugly, curt, mean, or rude personality traits that one may define and characterize someone being a bitch. I was quickly realizing that the real bitch was not someone else at all – or their personality. The bitch was the junk people have in their minds, thoughts, and beliefs.

The bitch was the ugliness that men and women internalize about themselves that holds them back, down, and out from believing in themselves and therefore the dreams and desires they have for life, love, business and more.

The bitch was both the internal fighting we are doing with ourselves, as well as the external fighting/arguing/bitching we are doing with others.

So my question to you – what bitch are you dealing with internally that is preventing you from achieving all of the things you so crave?

What negative beliefs or mindset do you have that leaves you completely frozen in place, or even pushing you backward?

What bitch are you NOT dealing with, confronting, and standing up to internally that if you did, you would be completely transformed to create anything you can dream?

I would love to hear from you and determine how my own lessons can help you!

Bernadette

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